Between borders

In January 2014, in April i was forced to leave her home and hometown due to military events in Donbass. Since 2017 i has lived in Bucha. As a result of the full-scale invasion of Russia in February 2022, I and my family became refugees for the second time. We fled to the Ukrainian city of Uzhhorod. I came to the station and helped people who were brought by evacuation trains. There I photographed portraits of refugees, at the junction of borders, destinies and times

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Milana Milana 3 years old. Before the war, she lived alone with her father in Krivoy Rog. They had to leave their home when Russian troops began to approach the city’s borders. The girl and her father are looking for asylum in Poland.

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Timur When heavy shelling began the boy’s mother was choking with fear, the twelve-year-old son Timur stroked her face and asked: mother, mother, what is wrong with you? Together they lived on the top floor of a multi-storey building. From there, they watched the shelling. The basement, where they could hide from shelling, was flooded with water and was not suitable for shelter. Therefore, Timur and his mother decided to live with friends on the ground floor. Several times they observed air raids, but almost all the time there was hail. Nastya learned to distinguish this sound, pshshshshshsh. On the first floor there are different sounds than on the upper floors. It was quieter downstairs. When the street became quiet the worst came. We understood that now it will begin. After this silence came a real hell. Every night when you go to bed, you are afraid that tomorrow you will not wake up. At the end of March, shelling in Kharkov intensified. Friends of Timur’s mother helped to get to the station. When they drove past the damaged Russian equipment, Nastya turned away, Timur, on the contrary, carefully examined. He was fond of military military equipment, studied and read a lot about it, now he saw it with his own eyes. Timur and his mother went to Slovakia.

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Sonya Sonya is 13 years old. She lived in Dnepropetrovsk with her brother and mother. As air raid alerts became more frequent and hostilities grew closer to their region, the family left the city and headed for Croatia.

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Zhenya When the war began Zhenya and her family left their hometown of Nizhyn and went to a village to live with their grandmother. After the Russian troops occupied the village, the family escaped from the occupation through the fields and returned to Nizhyn. The air raids did not stop in the city, shelling began when the first victims appeared. The girl’s mother decided to take Zhenya away from the war. They went to a European country where they would have the opportunity to live and work. The rest of the family remained in Nizhyn to defend their homes and their land.

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Alena Alena and her family came from the city of Balakliya, Kharkov region. Their housing was bombed, and they were forced to flee through the green corridor. The girl is the fifth youngest child in the family, her grandmother is confined to a wheelchair, and her grandfather could not be evacuated. The road to a safe place took 3 days.

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Dima A single mother with a two-month-old baby sat in a damp basement during air raids in Krivoy Rog. Lyuba grabbed her son and ran from the 3rd floor to a shelter across the street. When the fighting moved closer to the city, the woman grabbed a few bags, little Dima and ran to the train. For the whole day, 12 people rode in a stuffy compartment. They found a place for the baby on the shelf, and the woman slept on the floor. Lyuba did not know where she would spend the night, she did not have food, clothes, money, but most importantly, she knew that her child was safe.

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Nikita With his mother Svetlana, brother and sister, Nikita was forced to flee the war from Krivoy Rog. They had nowhere to hide during the air raid, people felt in constant danger. Nikita’s grandmother and father stayed at home. After taking his family to Slovakia, he volunteered for ZSU .The man could avoid military service having three children, but decided that he would not hide behind the backs of the children and went to protect them. Volunteers in Slovakia settled the family in the village. Little Nikita missed his dad. Together with his brother Yegor and his sister, he constantly asked to go home. Having learned that the aggressors had been moved away from the city, the situation in Krivoy Rog had stabilized, Nikita’s mother decided to return home.

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Lera Lera lived in Kyiv on Poznyaki district with her parents and little sister Alice. In the morning they woke up because of a strong blast wave that threw them on the bed. The shelter was far away, so they spent nine days in the bathroom hiding from the bombardment. Before the war, a mirrored ceiling was made and the girl was worried that it would collapse. There is a recommendation not to use the bathrooms as a shelter, when a projectile hits, the tile shatters into small pieces and can injure those who are nearby. The family decided to take the children to Spain with their mother. Father stayed in Ukraine. Uzhhorod March 2022