Home is where your heart is

A love letter born of grief and memory, this project weaves personal archives, messages, and images from Palestine into a tender act of resistance preserving connection, history, and love in the face of loss, distance, and the erasure of genocide.

This project is a love letter that trembles between tenderness and grief, written from memory, absence, and the longing to hold on to what once was and may never be again.

These are letters that resist the erasure of genocide, fragments caught between fog, death, and the thirst of my loved ones. It is a history rewritten by them, and by the fragments of my own memory that once lived in this space a relationship of more than a decade, where I built a family. Home is where your heart is.

Eleven years ago, I began photographing in Palestine. Over time, the bonds I formed grew deep, and the people who welcomed me into their lives turned that place into a second home. But since 2023, that home has begun to fracture: memories now carry the echo of bombs, of absence, death, text messages filled with fear, and the anxiety of knowing that what I hold in memory and in physical objects may never return may already be lost.

This series is also an act of preservation: of memory, of connection, of what still resists. It is pieced together through images and fragments of words messages, videos sent from under siege, photographs from my personal archive, and new images documenting the transformation of the landscape in the aftermath of genocide, occupation, starvation, and destruction.

What does it mean to hold on to the last bar of olive oil soap sent by your second family? To cling to its scent, not knowing if it will ever be replaced.

To wonder if the thread that connects us will break. If the soap will dissolve, like memory, because we are separated by 12,041 kilometers.

While my daughter plays with her toys, the son of my friends digs his out from the rubble. In her play, I recognize the ruins of those we love, now buried beneath them.

In the midst of fire, violence, and devastation, I receive a message: I love you. 
I love you like a soft pillow that soothes my thoughts for a second, only to become anxiety, the fear of losing you, of remembering your last I love you.


I hold on to every object in my home because it is part of who I am, part of you, part of the memory we built together.

This project is my love letter to you written in fear that it might be the last. Each message asking are you still alive? becomes part of the memory that clings to every corner, every object. Because in the downpour of messages, a thread of connection survives.

A compilation of personal archive images, videos, and messages sent by loved ones fragments that embody the lived reality in Palestine. A record. A resistance. A love that endures.

Because home is where the heart is.

© Glorianna Ximendaz - An embroidery from a friend, with the word “Palestine” stitched into the fabric of a Keffiyeh.
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An embroidery from a friend, with the word “Palestine” stitched into the fabric of a Keffiyeh.

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My old eyeliner, made with makeup from a piece of natural cloth soaked in olive oil and burned to ashes, a traditional method used to make Arab kohl. This eyeliner was a gift from one of my best friends from Gaza. In the photo, you can see the eyeliner and behind it, a photograph of a young Palestinian woman in Bethlehem. This is one of the last things I have left from Gaza.

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A satellite image of Gaza in 2025, with my partner’s hand in the frame. On his forearm, a tattoo of an olive leaf from the last tree we planted with our loved ones, a tree that was later uprooted by Israeli settlers from nearby settlements close to the village where our friend family’s land once stood.

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While my daughter plays with her toys, the son of my friends digs his out from the rubble. In her play, I recognize the ruins of those we love now buried beneath them.

© Glorianna Ximendaz - The son of my closest friends picking up his toys after their home was bombed. He was trapped under the rubble for hours.
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The son of my closest friends picking up his toys after their home was bombed. He was trapped under the rubble for hours.

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Photograph of bombings on the Beirut seafront where was a focal point during the Israeli invasion of Lebanon. On top of the photo, stones from the shores of Gaza. When I collected them, I knew it might be the last time I would ever be there. When I touch them, I reconnect with the sea, the memories, the sounds and with those this genocide has taken from us.

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My keffiyeh, gifted by my best friend, woven in the oldest keffiyeh factory in Palestine, alongside a necklace given to me by another dear friend from Palestine, engraved with the word Salam "Peace" in Arabic.

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Photograph send via Whatsapp of one of our loved ones after being attacked by an Israeli settler while herding sheep in the mountains of Hebron.

© Glorianna Ximendaz - An old photograph of the Palestinian landscape, next to a vintage hand-painted box from Gaza, a gift from my loved ones.
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An old photograph of the Palestinian landscape, next to a vintage hand-painted box from Gaza, a gift from my loved ones.

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Soap from the oldest factory in Palestine, located in Nablus.What does it mean to hold on to the last bar of olive oil soap sent by your second family?To cling to its scent, not knowing if it will ever be replaced?To wonder if the thread that connects us will snap?If the soap will dissolve like a memory because we are separated by 12,041 kilometers?

© Glorianna Ximendaz - An olive tree in Rallamah.
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An olive tree in Rallamah.

© Glorianna Ximendaz - Photograph from Ramallah, Palestine
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Photograph from Ramallah, Palestine

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Palestinian girl in a 1960 UNRWA camp, holding a plate of food.Next to the image, the last bit of Maqlube spices my loved ones sent me, reminding me of the meals we once cooked together. The flavors cling to my memory.When I saw that photo from the past, it felt as if time hadn’t passed: today, our loved ones are also displaced by genocide and ethnic cleansing, still waiting to receive a plate.