American Bedroom - reflections on the nature of life

American Bedroom is a cultural and anthropological study of Americans in their private dwelling: the bedroom. The nature of the project is unguarded portraits of individuals, couples and families that reveal the depth of their character, truth and spirit.

American Bedroom is a cultural and anthropological study of Americans in their private dwelling: the bedroom. The nature of the project is unguarded portraits of individuals, couples, and families that reveal the depth of their character, truth, and spirit. The images are paired with quotes from each subject and are full of subtle details that invite us to contemplate the idiosyncrasies of each enigmatic life. The scope of the project is the entire fifty US states.

The bedroom is not just a private place, but a sacred place. We build it as a shrine to our lives (even if houseless) and spend nearly one-third of our lives in it. It exemplifies our being; it is a place to rest, to love, to comfort, to be, to give life, to restore, to recover, to grieve, to lay sick and, to die. One thing is for certain, all lives are important, and everyone has a story to tell.

When physical doors opened to, me there was a veil of religion, politics, and ideologies that mysteri- ously and magically lifted. During the sessions with my subjects, what filled the conversations were the big things: Loneliness, loss, sorrow, regret, disappointment, re-awakening, self-awareness, wisdom, acceptance, contentment, and happiness. Perhaps because someone was there to listen, perhaps because the spotlight was finally on them. What appeared was the bare soul of a human life, a story, and purity of heart that rose like cream to the top. This is not a look at our differences—although there may be many—it is about our likenesses, our loves, our dreams, and all the threads of commonality that connect us as human beings.

© Barbara Peacock - Image from the American Bedroom - reflections on the nature of life photography project
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Laverne & James - Ages 72 & 74'Finding love late in life has taught me many lessons including not to be shy or embarrassed by my body. It is freeing to say I am big, bold and, beautiful.'- Big Stone Gap, Virginia

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The Mathews Family 'Endless possibilities and adventure! We sold our home and just about everything we owned 3 years ago. Little did we know what awaited us on the road...freedom unlike anything we had ever had.' Saratoga Springs, Utah

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Cai and Claire - Ages 28 & 29'Dismantle and rebuild ( the urge to destroy is a creative urge, a natural reset) build a home in you, a home in me. Together home is always growing, always being redefined-dismantled, and rebuilt. We see each other, we make space for each other. And here, we are always safe inside.' Bliss, Idaho

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Lafayette FamilyChevy - Age 27'I really want better for my kids. Right now, we all live in one room. We hope to get a home before the snow comes. I dream of becoming a nurse.'Detroit, Michigan

© Barbara Peacock - Pepere - Age 88'When I wake up I try to be quiet so I don't wake her. Then I remember she is no longer here.'Jay, Maine
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Pepere - Age 88'When I wake up I try to be quiet so I don't wake her. Then I remember she is no longer here.'Jay, Maine

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Nicole & Sven - Ages 33 & 36‘We are tattered and distressed, emotionally wiped, just lost a baby and, repairing our relationship. We were made for each other from across the oceans, we found each other.'Atlanta, Georgia

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Alex and Grace -Ages 26 & 28'We hold this together with our bare bodies, hands and hearts. Lavishly and somewhat simply. We found this love between us one day and we are grateful for it every day.'Denver, Colorado

© Barbara Peacock - Timothy - Age 9'On hot nights I sleep outside with the dogs.'Slab City, California
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Timothy - Age 9'On hot nights I sleep outside with the dogs.'Slab City, California

© Barbara Peacock - Brezzy - Age 31'I hardly ever see my son. Mostly I have sex with drugs and alcohol.'Gila River Reservation - Arizona
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Brezzy - Age 31'I hardly ever see my son. Mostly I have sex with drugs and alcohol.'Gila River Reservation - Arizona

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Micah & Kody - Ages 35 & 40‘Love is accrescent. If you choose to love, there is no end to how big and all-encompassing it can grow. We choose to love each other daily and will keep choosing to love as we push on into the future.’Omaha, Nebraska

© Barbara Peacock - Allie 'American Girl' - Age 52'I'm proud to be an American patriot.'Shohloa, Pennsylvania
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Allie 'American Girl' - Age 52'I'm proud to be an American patriot.'Shohloa, Pennsylvania

© Barbara Peacock - Billy - Age 53'I live in a room without windows. It's my home.'Belzoni, Mississippi
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Billy - Age 53'I live in a room without windows. It's my home.'Belzoni, Mississippi

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Jessica -Age 18'Sometimes life throws you in all sorts of directions, the important part is to remember you are exactly where you need to be.’Merrimac, New Hampshire

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Kalstas Family ‘Our world revolves around autism and the whole family struggles to keep up. But, it's our hearts that keep us together and our large family bed where every night we reconnect. Nobody can love our family like we do.’ Portland, Maine

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Taylor & Shannon - Ages 25 & 26‘All we ever wanted was a love that didn’t remind us of pain. We were never hard to love, we just asked the wrong people to try.’ Salt Lake City, Utah

© Barbara Peacock - Francisca & Lupe - Ages 42 & 52'In the end, it's all about love of family and one another.'Guadalupe, Arizona
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Francisca & Lupe - Ages 42 & 52'In the end, it's all about love of family and one another.'Guadalupe, Arizona

© Barbara Peacock - Orville -  Age 74‘I get tired of talking to myself; I get tired of listening to myself.’Sherwood, Tennessee
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Orville - Age 74‘I get tired of talking to myself; I get tired of listening to myself.’Sherwood, Tennessee

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Hope (she/her/he/him) & Kurt (he/him) - ages 16 & 17 ‘I love you with every atom! You are the tranquility of a calm stream and the excitement of a waterfall. You bring me all my favorite feelings. Forever isn’t long enough with you.’Homer, Alaska

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The Seh-Nielson Family Jamie -Age 44‘With the world moving ever so fast, these apples of my eye remind me to slow down, see the beauty in all things. They are the light.”Victor, Idaho

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Becky & Dave - Ages 65.‘We felt the weight of responsibility for our children for decades. Now we are on our own. Our empty nest has reawakened the joy of freedom we had as youths.’Madrid, New Mexico