always love each other, never get married

When I was a younger, I discovered a white briefcase filled with photographs and fragments of my parents’ early life together — their youth, their wedding, their beginnings.

The briefcase was among other things meant to be thrown away. Once opened, I realised it contained the traces of a life before mine, and I instinctively tried to rescue something. I took a handful of images and hid them in a box beneath my dolls’ clothes.

A few days later, the briefcase disappeared — and with it, the visible remains of my parents’ shared memories.

Over time, I began to revisit the rescued images — organising, reworking, and reanimating what had survived. In these photographs, I trace the sedimented layers of affection, silence, and disappearance that shaped my family’s story. The images have become both an archive and a site of erosion, where what was once vivid has faded, and yet continues to resurface.

Through this work, I attempt to reconstruct my parents’ story — not as a faithful restoration, but as an act of transformation. By layering fragments of the past with my own presence, I explore how memory accumulates, dissolves, and reconfigures over time — how what is buried can still speak through its remains.

© Maria Vittoria Desiato - Mom and Dad, Belvedere Marittimo (CS), 1987.
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Mom and Dad, Belvedere Marittimo (CS), 1987.

© Maria Vittoria Desiato - Postcard: "At any time of the day I remember you with love".  From Dad to Mom.
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Postcard: "At any time of the day I remember you with love". From Dad to Mom.

© Maria Vittoria Desiato - Engagement party, Belvedere Marittimo (CS), 1987.
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Engagement party, Belvedere Marittimo (CS), 1987.

© Maria Vittoria Desiato - Engagement party original photo re-processed on paper.
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Engagement party original photo re-processed on paper.

© Maria Vittoria Desiato - Wedding, Belvedere Marittimo (CS) 1988.
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Wedding, Belvedere Marittimo (CS) 1988.

© Maria Vittoria Desiato - Wedding portrait and my mother's notebook page.
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Wedding portrait and my mother's notebook page.

© Maria Vittoria Desiato - Revised wedding photo.
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Revised wedding photo.

© Maria Vittoria Desiato - Honeymoon, Praia a Mare (CS), 1988.
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Honeymoon, Praia a Mare (CS), 1988.

© Maria Vittoria Desiato - Honeymoon, Praia a Mare (CS), 1988.
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Honeymoon, Praia a Mare (CS), 1988.

© Maria Vittoria Desiato - Documents and photos from the honeymoon in Paris, 1988.
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Documents and photos from the honeymoon in Paris, 1988.

© Maria Vittoria Desiato - Documents and photos from the honeymoon in Paris, 1988.
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Documents and photos from the honeymoon in Paris, 1988.

© Maria Vittoria Desiato - Documents and photos from the honeymoon in Paris, 1988.
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Documents and photos from the honeymoon in Paris, 1988.

© Maria Vittoria Desiato - Documents and photos from the honeymoon in Paris, 1988.
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Documents and photos from the honeymoon in Paris, 1988.

© Maria Vittoria Desiato - Documents and photos from the honeymoon in Paris, 1988.
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Documents and photos from the honeymoon in Paris, 1988.

© Maria Vittoria Desiato - New Year's Eve 1988 and lottery ticket revisited with colored pencils.
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New Year's Eve 1988 and lottery ticket revisited with colored pencils.

© Maria Vittoria Desiato - Mom pregnant with my brother Antonio. Bergamo, 1992.
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Mom pregnant with my brother Antonio. Bergamo, 1992.

© Maria Vittoria Desiato - Mom and Antonio shortly after his birth, 1992. Original photo revisited with colored pastels.
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Mom and Antonio shortly after his birth, 1992. Original photo revisited with colored pastels.

© Maria Vittoria Desiato - Greeting card for motherhood, a few months before my birth. 1996
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Greeting card for motherhood, a few months before my birth. 1996

© Maria Vittoria Desiato - Mom pregnant with me and Antonio, 1997.
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Mom pregnant with me and Antonio, 1997.

© Maria Vittoria Desiato - Most recent photo of my parents found in the white briefcase.
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Most recent photo of my parents found in the white briefcase.