Borrowed Grandparents

Self-portrait photography project where I recreate with 9 actors and in their own homes a memory that does not exist for me: The relationship with my grandparents.

Moník Molinet creates an imaginary memory of life with grandmothers and grandfathers that now becomes real through the photographic act. Nine actors assume these roles in intimate, everyday scenes constructed from personal anecdotes and desires. To achieve this, Molinet stages 29 situations in four homes in Havana belonging to the same actors.

This project challenges the perception of memory and identity, utilizing both digital and analog formats. It also employs theatrical techniques like Brecht’s "Verfremdungseffekt", an intentional distancing that avoids catharsis and reveals the illusory construction of the

represented world. Both modes manage to connect the imaginary and the real, creating a new mode of existence through the photographic act.

Molinet reflects and visually creates her own desires through self-portraiture. In doing so, she pushes the boundaries of art and reality, leaving behind mere representation to become a symbolic field that invites the viewer to be part of this new memory —or to create other

memories from their own experience—. All this prompts us to question to what extent art can fulfil certain emotional lacks and create a powerful and living visual memory. - Curador Lorenzo Torres Hortelano

Artist Notes

Starting from the fact that memory is not reality, but only the memories that we believe we have lived, this self-portrait photographic project aims to create a memory of what I did not live, to fabricate, through the will and the resources of representation, memories of a relationship with my grandmothers and grandfathers. I asked several friends about the most important memories with their grandmothers and grandfathers, these writings full of emotion, longing and inevitably, sadness, marked the way.

If living is the first requirement to generate memory, can this in its fragility be manufactured? Created without denoting the seams of its manufacture? In this project I investigate the answer to these questions. Nine actors accompany this search, contributing their experiences, sensitivity, talent and even their own homes.

I am interested in taking a concept to its ultimate consequences, this work is made with this premise, the emotions created in its realization remain in me and in the rest of the team.

"This project does not intend to deceive the spectator, it is not documentary photography, it does not seek the truth. Rather, they are performative gestures, acts of intervention where what matters is not fidelity to the memory, but the possibility of it existing." - The Cuban Observer

I am interested in taking a concept to its ultimate consequences, this work is made with this premise, the emotions created in its realization remain in me and in the rest of the team.

This project is a candidate for PhMuseum 2026 Photography Grant

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© Moník Molinet - Image from the Borrowed Grandparents photography project
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Borrowed Grandmothers - his photograph was the only one of 29 memories, in which the action was focused on the act of photographing: the family photo. It is a tribute to Richard Avedon, one of my first references, andto his anecdote "Borrowed Dogs".

© Moník Molinet - Washing vegetables back from the market and talking about macrobiotic cooking with my grandfather Otto
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Washing vegetables back from the market and talking about macrobiotic cooking with my grandfather Otto

© Moník Molinet - Sunday general cleaning with my grandmother Tania P.
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Sunday general cleaning with my grandmother Tania P.

© Moník Molinet - Bathing Bandolero with my grandfather José
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Bathing Bandolero with my grandfather José

© Moník Molinet - Homemade spa with my grandmother Tania P
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Homemade spa with my grandmother Tania P

© Moník Molinet - Trying my grandmother's Tania D. beans.
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Trying my grandmother's Tania D. beans.

© Moník Molinet - Nap after lunch with my grandmother Estela and my grandfather Adalberto
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Nap after lunch with my grandmother Estela and my grandfather Adalberto

© Moník Molinet - Surprise birthday for my grandmother Tania D.
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Surprise birthday for my grandmother Tania D.

© Moník Molinet - Dancing afternoon with my grandmother Julia
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Dancing afternoon with my grandmother Julia

© Moník Molinet - Image from the Borrowed Grandparents photography project
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My grandmother Tania D. insists that I take some photos of myself in this 15thbirthday dress, my grandfather José intercedes for me

© Moník Molinet - Listening to my grandfather Adalberto's notes to not forget
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Listening to my grandfather Adalberto's notes to not forget

© Moník Molinet - Gatherings and coffee at my grandmothers Julia and Ester's house
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Gatherings and coffee at my grandmothers Julia and Ester's house

© Moník Molinet - My grandmother Estela drank too much coffee and her blood pressure went up
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My grandmother Estela drank too much coffee and her blood pressure went up

© Moník Molinet - I help my grandmother Ester after her shower, with cream for her delicate skin
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I help my grandmother Ester after her shower, with cream for her delicate skin

© Moník Molinet - It's Christmas Eve, my grandfather René is not alone.
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It's Christmas Eve, my grandfather René is not alone.

© Moník Molinet - The Farewell I
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The Farewell I

© Moník Molinet - Image from the Borrowed Grandparents photography project
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The Farewell - Create a memory that offers me the possibility of being present, accompanying, caring, and saying goodbye at the definitive moment: death.

© Moník Molinet - My grandfather Otto teaches me photography
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My grandfather Otto teaches me photography

© Moník Molinet - In the office of my grandmother Julia, feminist philosopher and poet, reading her latest publication
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In the office of my grandmother Julia, feminist philosopher and poet, reading her latest publication

© Moník Molinet - Sharing with my grandmother Estela and my grandfather Adalberto works from my lastexhibition in Havana, “Masculinities”
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Sharing with my grandmother Estela and my grandfather Adalberto works from my lastexhibition in Havana, “Masculinities”

Borrowed Grandparents by Moník Molinet

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