C-R92/BY

Due to some of the most divisive family immigration policies in the world, thousands of British families are forcibly separated by the Home Office. As a result, they must communicate with each other via ‘modern means of communication’, leading to the rise of what are now being referred to as ‘Skype Families’. Is this a new beginning to multi-national family life?

C-R92/BY seeks to investigate how one shares a relationship with a family member who has been physically and geographically removed from one’s life and is reduced to a two-dimensional image; what does it mean to take the irrefutably unique and transfer it into the infinitely replicable?

Throughout the making of this work my own wife faced deportation, and a personal reflection of my own experience into this potential 'new beginning' is weaved together with those of other families, using images, documents, testimonies and more to explore the hardships of detention, and the fight for family life.

C-R92/BY gives voice to the suffering of families who find themselves in such circumstances, including potentially my own; we are the unwilling players in a painful game of politics.

Furthermore, with Britain's exit from the EU, this work serves as a warning to the new beginnings of many international families - and even, perhaps, to us all - as recent global events transition us ever further into a world in which we are defined by our online presence, and build relationships via images that are shared on our screens.

© Samuel Fordham - Wedding Polaroid, 2018 On the 28th January 2015 I married Alexandra, known to her friends and family as Sasha.
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Wedding Polaroid, 2018 On the 28th January 2015 I married Alexandra, known to her friends and family as Sasha.

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The Immigration Rules Introduced in July 2012 Actively Drive Families Apart, 2018 For some of the millions who travel overseas, their time in another country takes on a wholly different meaning – they fall in love with the person they choose to share their life with.

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He Gets Knots in His Tummy and Worries, Yeah. We Had Him at The Doctor a Few Times, 2018 “[My son] went from a bubbly little boy to very reserved in the first few months of the separation, he was angry at us both but couldn’t understand why Dad won’t want to live with him. He would go from angry kicking out to long periods of cry and thought Dad didn’t love him. They are still working at rebuilding their relationship and trust.”

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I Just Want to Know My Daughter Better, 2018 “Our five-year-old is now at a stage she realises that Skype is not a real connection as she wants me to physically hug and kiss her. So, because of her disappointments, she sometimes simply refuses to come near the computer whenever I am on Skype with them. It is almost as if she is punishing me for not being there physically. This has tremendously affected my own outlook in life and constantly left me in despair.”

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For One to Two Years My Daughter Had Little Real Contact with Her Father, 2018 “But in the nursery in Japan, they told my wife that she started to have some problems and before she was fine ... They said that she wouldn’t interact with the other children, like she used to … that she had become a little bit bad, she doesn’t interact with the other children now. And also, a bad thing, but my wife only told me after, she didn’t want to upset me, but they were doing a drawing and [crying], they were drawing pictures and my daughter drew a picture because obviously she is small, only three, the picture is just scribbled, isn’t it?, at that age, but on my daughter’s scribble she only used the black crayon. The nursery staff gave her more crayons and said, ‘why don’t you use these ones, why would you use only a black one?’ And they kept saying ‘why don’t you use other colours’ but she said ‘no, only black, I only got black’…”

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The Surinder Singh Route, 2019 The Surinder Singh route is a potential means for British citizens to rely on family-friendly EU free movement laws — rather than the harsh UK immigration rules — to be reunited with their family members. Singh was an Indian citizen. He had married a British citizen and the two had resided for a time in Germany before returning to live in the UK. After they returned to the UK the couple divorced, leading to the UK government removing his leave to remain. He stayed and eventually the UK government began procedures to deport him. Singh then took the case to the European Court of Justice citing EU free movement rules. Under EU law, a Union citizen has the right to move to a Member State other than that of their nationality, and has the right to bring certain family members, including their non-EU national spouse, with them when they do so.

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My husband and I Are Separating in Part Because We Can’t Take the Stress Anymore, 2018 “At the moment I am utterly terrified because I feel my wife is on the brink of giving up. My head is pounding, my heart is aching with pain. Just the thought of not being with my family makes my stomach sick. I can never imagine a life without my wife and daughter because they mean the world to me. I don’t know why I am venting to you and you are a total stranger, the truth is I am scared of losing my family.”

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My Daughter is Getting to Know Me via Skype, 2018 “My elder daughter ... started by saying ‘ba, ba, ba’. ‘Ba’ means baba, which is dad in Arabic, because I was with her. My younger daughter just started with ‘le’, which is ‘why’… Now the first word is ‘le’ in her life.”

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I Thought I Would Sit Here and Look Out Over the Fjord for the Last Time, 2018 “We are not a family. Our only child does not have his father and his father never got to see his son being born.”

© Samuel Fordham - Untitled #1, 2018
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Untitled #1, 2018

© Samuel Fordham - Untitled #2, 2018
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Untitled #2, 2018

© Samuel Fordham - Untitled #3, 2018
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Untitled #3, 2018

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C-R92/BY by Samuel Fordham

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