Saul, Ybelia, Jamila, Inti & Dania Noritz-Reyes via FaceTime in Toronto, July 2020. “Beginning of quarantine was very difficult, I was at home in early March with the flu, wasn’t sure if it was COVID waited two-three days for a call back from tele health Canada. They suggested I stay home for 14 days regardless. The first few weeks, we felt trapped, annoyed with each others presence. We were all restless irritable and discontent. We isolated in our own spaces to stay out of each other’s way.. We had a falling out and had to have a family sit down and called each other out on our crap and misunderstanding without blame. A mega three hour therapy session that cleared a lot of tension and misunderstanding, after a lot of crying and hurt and healing words and hidden feelings. As time went on we got used to the not so normal, and that’s when things got better and fun. We would eat together, sit and hang out together, playing ping pong saved us and playing dominoes as a family bonded us with laughter, music and endless snacks. But all in all it was a testament of communication and listening to each other without blaming. Being honest and being willing to listen deeply to one another and admit our faults and short comings. Strength and courage. I was so proud of my gals, they were able to put words to the endless days of anger and strained faces, of emotional frustration. Very seldom we made the opportunity to sit and talk it out. They amazed me, it was a humbling experience for me in particular.” - Saul