Bonds Unseen

"Bonds Unseen" is a photo story shedding light on the intimate bonds between mothers and daughters in Bangladeshi brothels.

In the heart of societal shadows, "Bonds Unseen" sheds light on the unexplored dynamics within the intimate relationships of mothers and daughters in brothels. This photo series uncovers resilience, love, and shared hardship in the challenging context of brothel life.

The project's genesis lies in my mother's untimely death during the Covid pandemic in the United States. My guilt for not bringing her back to Bangladesh led me to rural corners, where I encountered elderly sex workers abandoned by families and society. Their stories mirrored my own struggle with guilt, creating a bond between us. I aimed to give them a voice and combat societal judgment through my lens. "Bonds Unseen" is a testament to human resilience, bridging my suffering with theirs.

Salt and rice starch play a profound role in the photographs, symbolizing tears, trials, and sustenance. They invite viewers to delve into the profound human experiences captured. My visual storytelling is immersive, capturing emotions through close-up portraits, textures, and intricate details. Alternative printing techniques with salt and rice starch infuse the subjects' realities into each photograph. The focus on skin texture is a prominent feature, revealing stories of hardship, resilience, and the inexorable passage of time. These photographs forge an intimate connection with viewers, fostering empathy for those living on society's margins.

Bangladeshi sex workers represent a diverse demographic, often driven into the trade due to limited education and socioeconomic challenges. Health issues like HIV/AIDS and societal stigma further marginalize them. The legal status of sex work in Bangladesh is complex, leading to exploitation and harassment. Human trafficking is also a pressing concern. Within brothels, elderly sex worker women transition into roles as cleaners and caretakers of young sex workers adding complexity to their lives.

"Bonds Unseen" is a testament to the indomitable human spirit, offering healing and redemption for those forsaken by society.

 

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Komola (76) was sold into the brothel's grasp as a child by a trusted cousin. Her only daughter, a child with a client, was surrendered to his father's care at infancy. Komola's heart holds an ever-flickering hope that one day she might seek her out.

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Begum (80), orphaned by adolescence, she was deceived and traded into the life of a brothel in Tangail. Amidst countless transient encounters, Begum's deepest sorrow is the void of motherhood.

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“ I was 16, I ran away from home and moved to Mymensingh brothel. I heard that here, one could make a lot of money in exchange for love. But after coming here, I realized I was ruined. I was trapped in a dream from which there was no escape - Rahima (59)

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Nargis (61), a mother of five, faces a heart-wrenching journey of motherhood in the shadows of a brothel. She's compelled to give up four of them for adoption. Her youngest, Brishty (25), dreams of a life beyond the brothel walls.

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Nazma (67) lost her 7 year old daughter at the age of 28 which made her emotionally unwell. At that time, her sister Chompa (54) visited her at the brothel and found herself lured into the glitz and glam of the world of prostitution.

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