Clockwise, top left: Nancy is evaluated by the director of CountryHouse Residences, a memory-care facility in Lincoln, Nebraska, to see if it would be her and her family’s best interest to move into the facility. Ron stirs his cup of hot cocoa with a fork, after pouring juice into the cup, while at breakfast one morning. Roxy reads the newspaper while enjoying one of the first spring days; many with Alzheimer's lose the ability to read. After moving in the memory-care facility earlier that morning with the help of her family, Nancy’s daughter helps her get ready for the day while she stares out her new bedroom window.
For many diagnosed with the neurodegenerative disease, staying in their home is their last attempt at keeping the lifestyle that they have always known. While some might be apprehensive about memory-care facilities, they are able to provide assurance, not only for those who live there, but also for their loved ones who may not otherwise know.
After falling one morning, Eloise and the couple’s caretaker, Kathleen, check Ward into a local emergency room. He sits in a hospital bed, hands outstretched. Unable to assist her husband in the situation, Eloise sits in the corner of the hospital room, watching their caretaker and a doctor instead help Ward.
Clockwise, top left: Mary receives her daily medication from a CountryHouse nurse. A nurse helps guide Anita to breakfast. Irvin dances with one of the CountryHouse caretakers. Mary, with the help of a nurse at the memory-care facility where she resides, gets ready for the day.
Being a nurse in a memory-care facility can oftentimes be a challenge. For many diagnosed with Alzheimer’s, they experience increased levels of both anxiety and anger. Sudden escalations are not uncommon. Simple tasks can often turn into major battles.
Clockwise, top left: Dick is assisted in getting back to his room after lunch. Irvin, without his shoes, walks to breakfast. Minutes before, he took off his shoes near the entryway of the memory-care facility. Jim, without any help, walks back to his room.
One moment a resident’s overwhelming sharpness can transform into not being able to form a coherent sentence. The disease affects each individual differently.
Ward grasps his wife's hand. The couple first met in college in 1945 during a handshake, a school-sponsored event in which people line up and greet one another, as a way of getting acquainted. During the handshake, Eloise says that she turned to her then roommate and whispered, “That’s the man I’m going to marry someday,” and pointed to Ward in the crowd. It was at this moment that she remembers falling in love with him.
Clockwise, top left: Eloise looks at Ward while he stares at the window of the couple's bedroom. Marilue sits in the CountryHouse's van during one of the many outings that the memory-care facility takes the residents on. Bev, a former softball coach, coaches the facility's employee softball league each week. Even after being diagnosed with Alzheimer's, remembering well beyond just rules of the game. Accidently wearing his wife's sweater, Ward grasps his wife's arm as they talk about how they first met. Over time,
Alzheimer’s disease quietly takes a toll on not only the diagnosed, but also their friends, loved ones and caretakers. Even today, discussions of the disease are often followed with a deafening silence and a call for understanding.